Meet, match, make it real

A discreet, secure way to meet people who understand what you’re looking for and fit your life. Join the waitlist for early access to a community built around meaningful, respectful connections.

What others may call a lavender marriage, we simply call love that suits you.

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Find your kind of connection

Meet people who share your vibe and values. Discover genuine connections in a welcoming space made for you.

Share your story, interests, and dreams. Our community is built on real conversations and meaningful moments.

Feel safe and supported every step. We prioritize your comfort, so you can focus on what matters—meeting new people.

Get early access to exclusive features. Be the first to try new ways to connect and grow your circle.

Join a community that celebrates everyone. Here, every background and identity is welcome and valued.

Stay in the loop with updates and tips. We’ll keep you inspired and informed as you start your journey.

Your feedback shapes our future. Help us build a space that truly feels like home for all.

Ready to meet someone new? Take the first step and join our waiting list today.

Join the waitlist today

Get early access to a private, intentional dating experience for those looking beyond traditional dating expectations. Join the waitlist to receive updates and be part of a thoughtful community from day one. Your story starts here.

Your questions, answered

Find answers. Feel welcome.

Wondering what we’re about and what makes this space different? We’ve gathered the most common questions and answered them clearly, so you can explore at your own pace. If you’re curious, you’re in the right place.

What kind of app is this?

It’s a private, intentional dating platform created for people who don’t always feel represented by mainstream apps. We know society often expects relationships to look a certain way — and that not everyone feels at home in those expectations.

Project Lavender offers a space to connect with like-minded people who value respect, trust, and clarity, and who are looking for something that fits their life more authentically. Privacy, safety, and compatibility are at the heart of everything we build.

Do I need to share personal information?

No. Joining the waitlist only requires an email. We will never sell or share your data — ever.

When will the app launch?

We’re currently in development and inviting early testers soon. Joining the waitlist guarantees early access when we open our beta.

Will my participation be anonymous?

Yes. Privacy is a core value of our platform. Nothing will ever be publicly visible without your consent.